Extends the underlying [can-connect/connection.updatedList] so any instances that have been added or removed from the list have their reference counts updated accordingly.
connection.updatedList( list, listData, set )
Increments an internal request counter so instances on this list during this request will be stored, and decrements
the same counter for all items previously on the list (found in
a typed list of instances being updated
an object representing the previous state of the list
the retrieval set used to get the list